If you want someone to do anything you want, you need to know what they are grateful for. This way, you have the ability to motivate them and create a win-win situation that is beneficial to both sides. It should be a symbiotic relationship. Find out what they are grateful for and connect it to […]

Your devastation is not your destination. On your journey of trying to reach your goals, you may face destruction and you may feel devastated. That is okay, it is part of life. When you hit rock bottom and you think there is no further down…think again. This is not the end of the road – […]

Everyone has goals that hit a plateau or some sort of waiting point. Remember that you are not getting weaker in the waiting. This is an active position or a point where you need to be at. However, you will not be stuck at that point! You will be going to the point you want […]

When making a decision, you must distinguish if it is short-term or long-term. Make sure to have a long-term mindset, when you are making a long-term decision. Long-term thinking is about the distant future. Many successful people are better at thinking and thus planning, what they want their future to look like. Short term mindset […]

A new study suggests that people might want to avoid making any important decisions about the future on an empty stomach. When you are hungry you’ll become impatient and you are more likely to settle for a small reward that arrives sooner. You will likely settle for the food that will arrive sooner than the […]

Having the desire is not the issue, it is the decision that you make about that desire. Desire is a strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen. While a decision is an act or process of deciding. Not all of our desires are good for us. Hence, we need […]

Emotions are a natural instinctive state of mind deriving from one’s circumstances, mood, or relationships with others. They are real, but they don’t always reflect reality. We have to distinguish our emotions from reality. Our emotions or feelings are triggered by situations or circumstances. The situation that you are currently in is your reality. Dealing […]

When you’re focusing on today, you have to forget about tomorrow. You will find that you are getting the most of every single day. It doesn’t mean that you will totally disregard the future. This is simply living in the moment. Focus on living in the present moment. This means no longer worrying about what […]

You don’t need to agree with the other person in order to understand them and validate their feelings. Take time to understand what they are feeling and thinking. Although, it is easier to agree than to disagree. Try to listen and talk rationally if you don’t seem to see eye to eye. When in disagreement […]